its about love

it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never finding the courage to let the person know how you feel. maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we should know how to be grateful for that gift. love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance- and you find out you still care for that person. a sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go. when one door of happiness closes, another opens but often we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. the best kind of friend is the one you could sit on a porch, swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you've had. its' true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their hearts but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. there are things you love to hear but you would never hear it from the person whom you would like to hear it from, but don't be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with his heart. never say goodbye when you still want to try - never give up when you still feel you can take it - never say you don't love that person anymore when you can't let go. love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, need to love those who still love even though they've been hurt before. it takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. don't go for looks' it can deceive; don't go for wealth - even that fades away. go for someone who makes you smile coz' only a smile makes a dark day seem bright. hope you find that person. there are moments in life when you really miss someone that you want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! hope you dream of that someone. dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be cuz you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want in life. may you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy and enough money to buy me gifts :) always put yourself in other's shoes. if you feel that it hurts you, it probably does hurt the person, too. a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless. the beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them with our own image - otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. love starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear. the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling - live your life so that when you die, you're smiling and everyone around you is crying..

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....Ingin aku mendaki semula ke tangga tangga ke pintu bahagia, mencari cahaya cinta yang sebenarnya pernah ada antara aku dan kamu...

Dalam hidup ini, kita perlukan sesuatu dalam istilah menerima dan memberi.. Timbal balik daripada sesuatu yang diterima dan diberi melahirkan suatu perasaan menghargai antara satu sama lain.. Perasaan dalam menghargai sesuatu atau seseorang tidak semestinya dinyatakan dalam bentuk tutur kata..

Kadang dalam menghayati sesebuah erti perhubungan dan perasaan cinta itu diluahkan di dalam bentuk perbuatan.. Butakah mata yang memandang sepi akan terzahirnya sesuatu, tidak dapat menilai ertinya bahasa tubuh yang dipamerkan.. Tidak memahami atau sengaja membiarkan diri dirangkap sombong akan diri dalam menghargai sesuatu yang di hadapannya..

Orang yang menyintaimu, kadang tidak meluahkan kata cinta setiap masa.. Hanya kadang kadang masa yang amat bererti dan sesuai sahaja akan diungkapkan.. Namun dari segi perbuatannya, di setiap layanan yang diberikan tersuratnya makna tersirat.. Dan mungkin itu caranya menghayati setiap saat bersama kamu

Kamu akan selalu mengingati kata kata yang di ucapkan oleh pasangan kamu dulu di saat pertemuan.. Dan kata kata yang di ucapkan sering bermain di minda dan fikiran dan selalu terpahat di dalam memori kamu.. Kadang kata kata yang dilemparkan oleh si dia menjadi sumber semangat kamu dalam melakukan sesuatu atau menjadi panduan..

Buat seseorang yang masih mencintai dan menaruh harapan,  pasti akan selalu mengingat setiap kejadian yang kamu lalui bersama dia, dan saat itu, matanya pasti berkaca. kerana saat bersama dia itu tidak biasa berulang selalu.. Dan kerana setiap saat berlalu bersama si dia adalah saat yang amat berharga..

Kita akan selalu leka akan perkara yang selalu asyik di buai dengan perasaan sedangkan berada kita di sini bukanlah menyesali perkara yang lepas.. Namun sekuat mana kita untuk melupakan, kuat lagi kenangan itu datang mengusik di sanubari..

Itulah kita, dan bila perginya seseorang tanpa kita sedari.. Dan di saat kita terasa kehilangannya, baru menyesali bahawa si dia benar benar menyintai kita.. Kerana kita tidak menghargai tika ada..

Tiada guna punyai hati tapi tidak dapat menilai erti kasih yang diberi.. Tiada guna punyai mata jika hanya memandang tanpa melihat budinya.. Belajarlah menghargai.. Kenalilah hatinya..

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